Exactly 18 days ago, I had a dream which involved this guy…
Heh…now those who know me well will know that whenever I have a dream involving a person of interest the following happens…
- Typically, when I wake up, I would think about the dream, review it in my head over and over again,
- then try to analyze it,
- then maybe write it down so I don’t forget any details,
- then I talk to a couple of my closest girl friends about it,
- and sometimes I will ask some guy friends for input without giving too much details,
- then I google some dream interpretations,
- then I try to come up with some logical reasoning for my dream and figure out why I had it in the first place
haha! Wow, that was exhausting! I’m so complicated! Why must I make everything complicated?? Lol.
Anyway, when I woke up the morning after I had that dream, I actually only thought about it for a quick minute, texted a friend and told her that I just had a dream about someone then I decided to text that guy!
Was I crazy for doing so? Probably! But guess what!? At that time, I really didn’t care. I did not even think about it twice, just once, I promise! I mean, I had nothing to lose. And if anything, I ended up just using it as a reason to say hi to him anyway. I mean, what’s the harm in that, right?
Fortunately, he didn’t find it creepy or weird at all. (It really wasn’t a weird dream anyway) He actually thought it was pretty funny and then we started to ask how each other’s been. (See? Good results!) We even decided we should bring our “gang” back together for a little reunion - his idea, not mine! ;)
Now, we’re still trying to figure out how and when we’re gonna get everyone together, but it was a good way to start communication with this guy again…
However, the following events I did not, and could not have anticipated.
-Running into him two days later
-Ending up sitting next to each other (at an event) just a week after then walking out together & talking
-Texting each other two days later
-Him running into me again just today!
Like I said, I could not have planned these events, and there was no way I could have controlled what was happening. Even when I talk about it with my friends, I’m still in some kind of shock that these events happened right after my dream, and right after texting him.
I’m just glad I did. I mean, the only thing different that I really did was put myself out there and allowed myself to become vulnerable enough to the situation. No matter how big or small of an impact it had, I still did it!
And now, lately, I feel like he’s starting to become vulnerable and warm up to me, too.
And yes, I did have a thing for him. …Okay, I’ve had a thing for him since last year, but I thought I got over it. Turns out, I was just repressing my feelings. Or maybe I wasn’t? I was just being patient and letting fate take control… or whatever. (lol)
All I know is, I’ve been experiencing “a series of small serendipities” lately… ;)